When the order in a family dynamic is restored, love can flow.
Family constellations work
on the premise that is stated in the scriptures,’ the children atone for the sins of
their forefathers’. Whatever is excluded, unprocessed or unresolved in a previous
generation will be carried in the family system and a following generation will
carry it subconsciously out of love and loyalty to the family line.
Family constellations work on a soul level. They go deeper than ones
rational thought and natural capacity to change. When a person is born
into a family, they take on the whole family system as their inner image of
life. This image of life from the family conscience, holds any unresolved
issues from previous generations that are carried in love and loyalty to the
family line. Constellations allow people to access the necessary knowledge or
information to dissolve and heal repressed and subconscious information stored
up in the family history. Issues are brought into the light and resolved,
bringing natural order back into the system so the flow of love is
restored. At the end of the constellation, the new family images replace the old inner image that the client had, and this new image then determines
their life from then on. The changes result in a more harmonious state of
being – we feel power, love and freedom when we are in harmony with the divine
order of love in a family. People feel better about themselves and their
relationships work better
The process of a family constellation, is that a client brings an issue that
they want to resolve – it may be a personal issue, a family dynamic, a
relationship issue, work issue – or any other matter that they would like to
gain insight into and transform. They then position (or constellate) the
key people or elements in the dynamic according to their inner view in relation
to each other in the field/ constellation space – people, dolls, pieces of
paper, cushions, chairs – can be used as representatives for the different
elements. The representatives in their respective places are able to access the
perceptions of the people they are representing. The facilitator questions the
representatives one after another and works with them to help the client
resolve the struggle by uncovering the hidden underlying truths so that the
natural flow of love can be restored. In the end, the client takes a
position in the restored constellation and replaces the representative standing
in for him/her in order to allow the new awareness to sink in. This makes
the client aware of all the emotional entanglements they were carrying so they
can be released.
Family constellations help people to make their problems visible and
emotionally perceivable so that they can face them. They become conscious of
hidden patterns and entanglements. It brings what lies in shadow into the
light so it can be healed and integrated.
Family Constellations can be done in individual coaching sessions or in a
Family Constellation Workshop